Bfs are important no doubt. But friends count too, don’t they? It is quite true, that ultimately, boyfriends/husbands/girlfriends/wives are gonna be quite a bit more important than good friends. They quite naturally get the priority, and i am guilty of that as well. Some attached pals have said: “Friends are important…but friends are…friends..bfs/gfs/wives/husbands- they are the ones whom you are closest to, the bestest friend, someone who will give you special attention, love and care.”
I would largely agree although there are always some exceptions…But no matter what, a balance is needed!
“if he ever brings this up, tell him that the girls’ night out was cancelled..not that i pulled out”